I once asked a guy who was madly in love with a girl, “Why are you so madly in love with that lady?” ” Oh ! she is very beautiful,” he said. Then, I asked her again, “what makes her so beautiful to you?” He replied in a confused and stammering voice, “I….I can’t really say. I’m so attracted to her, but you see Theo, there’s this thing like a magnetic force that pulls me forces you to always be with her. The problem is that I don’t know exactly what makes her beautiful. Oh yes!, but I know for certain that she is too beautiful. Right, Theo? ” Not knowing what to say, I spontaneously answered: “That’s it, buddy!”
When I was in college, I often overheard my roommates arguing about how their classmates looked in the bedroom. They were always arguing, saying, “Getty is beautiful.” But another will say, “No! She’s pretty.” Still, the third pal protested firmly, “Getty’s just cute, not pretty.” Listening to all these confused friends, I realized that there’s this common denominator in the way they see all of their ladies: there’s this thing about their ladies that seems to enchant them.
In trying to decode this confusing aspect of beauty, I discovered that aside from unusual outward beauty, there are so many other things that women are endowed with that win the hearts of men. In fact, I was enlightened when I suddenly remembered what my Sunday School tutor once said about Jacob’s two wives in the Bible. That’s what he actually said, “Rachel was beautiful and well favored, but Leah had tender eyes.” I remember asking him what he, or better yet, the Bible meant when he said, “Leah had tender eyes.”
He patiently explained to me: “When you ask a married man or a mature man, he will attest to you that beauty is vain. But there are so many other things that make people happy and happy. But apart from striking physical beauty, there are other things that aren’t easily spotted that make them appealing. That’s what Leah had. “You see,” he continued, “Saturdays aren’t not the most beautiful ladies who marry. If it was just physical beauty, then these ladies would all be married a long time ago.”
I’ve come to realize that what really wins the hearts of men are the “soft-eyed” qualities of women. I would like to point out the many things that make up the “soft-eyed” nature of women that enchants men. By this acquisition of revealed secrets, I hope that men would easily identify now, those discreet things that make them love their women “madly”. Let’s go through them now!
1. Beauty emanating from the sanguine nature of a woman.
Most men are subconsciously attracted to a woman’s strength that matches her weakness. A woman who is sanguine by temperament is naturally easily spotted even in a crowd because she is adorable. They are loved by men because:
– they make friends easily and they really love each other.
– they always have a gentle spirit, easily forgiving what hurts them, knowing well that everyone has flaws and makes mistakes, and are quick to sincerely apologize when they offend others. Why wouldn’t a man like to be with such a person?
– they are full of life, displaying a great taste for fashion, always beautiful and gentle, making all men want to be with them.
Due to their charming nature, men feel comfortable around them. They, being sexually aggressive and generally inviting, drive their men crazy.
2. Beauty emanating from a woman’s angry nature.
By their nature to make things happen, angry women believe that they can do whatever they want. Energetic and very productive women, they participate in the finances of the household which makes men appreciate them very much. When they’re in love with a guy, their tenacious attitude makes them hold on tight and stubbornly even when the guys they desire resist or avoid them, but they don’t let go, trying every romantic move to make men feel special. and necessary.
When they finally win the hearts of their men, men love them for their boldness and confidence.
3. Beauty emanating from the melancholic nature of women.
A woman with a melancholic temperament is truly charming. She is able to literally run her hubby home, ignoring all his friends at work just to taste her connoisseur cook. She really understands the saying, “the way to a man’s heart is through food”. She keeps her man’s house organized and self-disciplined. Her beauty even enchants her man’s friends due to her wonderful hosting abilities during their visits, which makes her man always cheerful just to be with her. Her extreme loyalty to her man attracts a lot of adoration.
As a frugal woman, she spends wisely and knows how to manage money no matter how much money she has or is given to her. She is super romantic and her moods are as noticeable as the bright morning star. In bed, she totally prefers the quality of the sex life to the quantity. She is an exciting and fulfilling love partner. What inner beauty!
4. Beauty emanating from the phlegmatic nature of a woman.
The source of her beauty radiates from her following attributes:
– she is very caring, always thinks about her man, his needs and tries to help him. Her man also tends to show her a lot of love, attention and becomes highly intimate with her.
– his peaceful demeanor makes his home peaceful and always welcoming.
– she has her sincere passion for gratifying her man using the technique of never insisting on things being done her way.
– she has a deep and lasting relationship, displaying an attitude that says, “Man! once I’m yours, I’m yours forever.” In fact, she is really faithful to her man. With her, a man in love with her rarely gets jealous when she is with other guys. He really trusts her. She has a knack for sticking with a rocky, stormy relationship long after most women would have given up. She will be there even in difficult times.
– she barely gets angry and has this propensity to absorb emotional pain and stay committed to her relationship.
As you go through the tips, you would have understood that I have used the strengths of the four main types of temperament to make you understand the beauty that wins a man’s heart forever. Yes, you can win your man’s heart forever, because at least one of the above four beauties is associated with any woman and it is innate and manifests naturally. Therefore, women, you have what it takes to keep your men forever. Use them. Expand them. Improve them. Do not be filled with self-pity. You have tender eyes!
Always remember: physical beauty can make a man come for you, but it’s the real, inner, innate, natural beauty that keeps the man forever.
